Conflict Communication :
Miller, Rory.
Conflict Communication : A New Paradigm in Conscious Communication. - 1 online resource (188 pages)
Front Cover -- Back Cover -- Title Page -- Copyright -- Contents -- Foreword -- Introduction -- Section 1 Background -- Section 1.1 Sex and Violence -- Section 1.2 Why and Wherefore-Maslow -- Section 1.3 Why and Wherefore-Three Brains -- Section 1.4 Types of Conflict -- Section 2 Fundamentals -- Section 2.1 Responses to Conflict AreSubconscious -- Section 2.2 Your Responses to Conflict AreScripted -- Section 2.3 For the Good of the Group -- Section 2.4 Enforcing the Monkey Scripts -- Section 2.5 Using Your Human Brain -- 2.5.1 Recognize When You Are on a Script -- 2.5.2 Is the Script Helping? -- 2.5.3 Changing or Aborting a Script -- 2.5.4 Check for Effect -- Section 2.6 Staying at the Human Level -- 2.6.1 You vs. "Ya" -- 2.6.2 Don't Take It Personally -- 2.6.3 Reality, Unreality, and the Shadow Community -- Section 2.7 Hooks -- Section 2.8 The Monkey Problem -- 2.8.1 Categories of Monkey Problems -- 2.8.2 Specific Solutions -- Status Checking -- We Don't Do That Here -- You Don't Belong Here -- Snowflakes -- Untouchables -- Section 2.9 Group Dynamics -- 2.9.1 Management and Leadership -- 2.9.2 On Entering a New Group -- Section 2.10 The Other Maslow Levels -- 2.10.1 Dealing with Survival Fear -- 2.10.2 Dealing with Predators -- 2.10.3 Affordances -- Section 3 Tactics, Tools, Techniques -- Section 3.1 Coordinating Your Own Mind -- Section 3.2 Active Listening -- Section 3.3 The Tactical Apology -- Section 3.4 Rapport Building -- Forced Teaming -- Loansharking -- Typecasting -- The Unsolicited Promise -- Disregarding "No" -- Section 3.5 Boundary Setting -- Section 3.6 Work from the Common Ground -- Section 3.7 The Power of Reputation -- Section 3.8 The Human Alpha -- Section 3.9 Manipulating Adrenaline -- Section 3.10 Brown M&M's and the PurpleRose -- Section 3.11 The Grand Recalibration -- Appendix 1 Violence -- Levels of Coercion. Appendix 2 Threat Assessment -- Is This a Dangerous Relationship? -- Is This a Dangerous Place? -- Will This Situation Become Violent? -- Am I Being Targeted For Violence? -- Distinguishing Social and Asocial -- Appendix 3 The Love Script -- Afterword -- Glossary -- About the Course -- Bibliography -- Index -- About the Author -- Books from YMAA -- DVDs from YMAA.
9781594393327
Violence - Prevention.
Electronic books.
303.69
Conflict Communication : A New Paradigm in Conscious Communication. - 1 online resource (188 pages)
Front Cover -- Back Cover -- Title Page -- Copyright -- Contents -- Foreword -- Introduction -- Section 1 Background -- Section 1.1 Sex and Violence -- Section 1.2 Why and Wherefore-Maslow -- Section 1.3 Why and Wherefore-Three Brains -- Section 1.4 Types of Conflict -- Section 2 Fundamentals -- Section 2.1 Responses to Conflict AreSubconscious -- Section 2.2 Your Responses to Conflict AreScripted -- Section 2.3 For the Good of the Group -- Section 2.4 Enforcing the Monkey Scripts -- Section 2.5 Using Your Human Brain -- 2.5.1 Recognize When You Are on a Script -- 2.5.2 Is the Script Helping? -- 2.5.3 Changing or Aborting a Script -- 2.5.4 Check for Effect -- Section 2.6 Staying at the Human Level -- 2.6.1 You vs. "Ya" -- 2.6.2 Don't Take It Personally -- 2.6.3 Reality, Unreality, and the Shadow Community -- Section 2.7 Hooks -- Section 2.8 The Monkey Problem -- 2.8.1 Categories of Monkey Problems -- 2.8.2 Specific Solutions -- Status Checking -- We Don't Do That Here -- You Don't Belong Here -- Snowflakes -- Untouchables -- Section 2.9 Group Dynamics -- 2.9.1 Management and Leadership -- 2.9.2 On Entering a New Group -- Section 2.10 The Other Maslow Levels -- 2.10.1 Dealing with Survival Fear -- 2.10.2 Dealing with Predators -- 2.10.3 Affordances -- Section 3 Tactics, Tools, Techniques -- Section 3.1 Coordinating Your Own Mind -- Section 3.2 Active Listening -- Section 3.3 The Tactical Apology -- Section 3.4 Rapport Building -- Forced Teaming -- Loansharking -- Typecasting -- The Unsolicited Promise -- Disregarding "No" -- Section 3.5 Boundary Setting -- Section 3.6 Work from the Common Ground -- Section 3.7 The Power of Reputation -- Section 3.8 The Human Alpha -- Section 3.9 Manipulating Adrenaline -- Section 3.10 Brown M&M's and the PurpleRose -- Section 3.11 The Grand Recalibration -- Appendix 1 Violence -- Levels of Coercion. Appendix 2 Threat Assessment -- Is This a Dangerous Relationship? -- Is This a Dangerous Place? -- Will This Situation Become Violent? -- Am I Being Targeted For Violence? -- Distinguishing Social and Asocial -- Appendix 3 The Love Script -- Afterword -- Glossary -- About the Course -- Bibliography -- Index -- About the Author -- Books from YMAA -- DVDs from YMAA.
9781594393327
Violence - Prevention.
Electronic books.
303.69